Finger Techniques

here are some steps:

The rubber

The clitoris is the place to stimulate for most women. When she’s adequately self-lubricated, or you’ve put some water-based lube on your fingers, use the tips of your index and middle fingers to rub her clitoris softly in a circular motion. Her reaction will let you know that you’re on to something. Continue your pace and slowly begin to increase speed. At no point, however, should you go so fast that you end up losing focus.

If she yells out something like “Don’t stop!” then don’t stop. Some women, however, like it when you take a break from the clitoris and proceed to insert those very same fingers inside the vagina at a rhythmic pace. Take cues from her reactions to see if she’s one of these women.

The fastest finger

Does your woman prefer to have slow, exaggerated sex, or does she like to hop up and down on you like a bunny? If it’s the latter, using your middle finger to go in and out of her at high speeds may be beneficial in the orgasm department.

For this finger technique, you’d be best served to position yourself in front of her vagina (that is, spread her legs open and kneel in between them). That way, you can keep your hand straight and ensure that your finger(s) is (are) going in at full capacity. It also lessens the chances of missing your target.

The helping hand

If you can manage to use both hands at different tempos, she’ll keep getting wetter. While using the tips of your fingers on one hand to rub her clitoris in a circular motion, use the index and middle fingers of the other hand to glide in and out of her vagina. The multiple sensations will serve to increase her chances of reaching orgasm. It’s not a race, however; you don’t have to go as fast as humanly possible. Just keep a steady rhythm. If she wants it faster, she’ll let you know.

better way of fingering..

There are several different ways to masturbate with your fingers. It all comes down to what feels best for you and gives you the most pleasure. It is also a great opportunity to explore these concepts and also some direction to give your partner to make sure you are well-satisfied in foreplay. In any case, if your vagina is not already wet, it is a good idea to use some sort of lubrication, whether store bought or by saliva (you can lick them before you begin). 

1. Get in a good position. 
2. Spread legs wide open. 
3. Spread labia open. 
4. Place tips of fingers inside. 
5. Push them in and out. 

1. Start by rubbing the outside of your vagina until wet. 
2. Insert a finger. 
3. Work your way to two fingers and so on. 

1. Lie down 
2. Spread your legs wide 
3. Insert your fingers 
4. Close your legs really tight 
5. Wriggle your fingers until satisfied

Touching your clitoris by tapping, rubbing, stroking, tickling, etc is great pleasure. You can do this before, after, or during fingering yourself.